User guide

How to use Pilke, and how its parts work.

  1. Pilke in shortUnfinished

    Pilke is a dating app with no swiping and no chatting. Keep your calendar up to date, send invitations, answer the ones you get, and go on dates!

  2. Your free timesUnfinished

    Candidates only come from times you both have free. Your calendar decides who you can meet.

  3. SparksUnfinished

    Pilke runs on sparks. They build up from a calendar kept up to date and from the dates you go on, and 5 sparks send a date invitation.

  4. Who you are shownUnfinished

    Why these people are your candidates, in what order you see them, and why someone stops turning up.

  5. InvitationsUnfinished

    An invitation comes with the times and places already in it. The other person picks one of each, and the date is agreed.

  6. Cancelling and cooldownsUnfinished

    You get a cooldown if you call off an agreed date, withdraw your invitation, decline one or leave it unanswered, or don’t turn up. This page shows how long it lasts and what you can still do during it.

  7. The day of the dateUnfinished

    How you find each other at the venue, and what to do if the other person does not come.

  8. After the dateUnfinished

    Feedback says how the date went, decides whether you meet again, and earns sparks.

  9. SafetyUnfinished

    The safety button brings in someone you trust during a date, and a safety report tells us if you felt unsafe.

  10. Your data and your accountUnfinished

    What other people see about you and when, which notifications always come, and what deleting your account does.

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